Picture this: it’s time to unload the dishwasher. Someone helps, which is great, but the cups end up in all the wrong places. You gently point out where they’re supposed go, but your child gets a little annoyed.
To you, it seems obvious.
You set up the system, and you’ve used it a hundred times.
For everyone else, they see an empty spot, so that’s where the cup goes. They aren’t seeing the reason behind your setup.
That’s where customizing the space helps.
When each shelf is set to the height of what belongs on it, the cabinet gives everyone clues. The customized spaces does some of the explaining for you.
And turning all the handles the same way?
It’s a bit like watching synchronized swimmers or a marching band. When everything faces the same direction, it looks calm and intentional, and it’s easier to notice when something is out of place.
Try it with your kids
If you feel like this tip can improve your cupware organization and maximize your kitchen cabinet, invite your kids to help decide how high or low each shelf should go.
Then, test it out with them. Try taking a few cups and mugs out of the cabinet and see if they can figure out where to put them back.
Let me know how they do!
If you are new to Dooley Noted
I’m Ann Dooley, a connection-first family organizer and the creator of the Dooley Method. I’m also a certified parenting coach, a Master Level KonMari Consultant, and a mom of two teen boys, who have been learning alongside me since my youngest was three.
I help families create order in their home with fewer power struggles, more independent kids, and a calm that holds up through busy weeks.
I write on Substack to share what I’ve learned from nearly 10 years of personal and professional experiences working with families.
If you’re tired of reorganizing the same spaces, or being the only one who knows where everything goes, let’s talk.
