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Sheeba | This, Right Here's avatar

Thank you so much, Lara❤️❤️

Dooley Noted's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing!

Lara | The Parenting Tree's avatar

Thank you for the story, Sheeba and for the insights, Ann! I think it's extremely heartwarming when parents are supportive of their children's interests, even if it's not one that's shared. Shreya's mother taking her questions seriously, and genuinely giving answers, and her father coming with a small tin box for her collectibles. It warms my heart 🥹 As what Ann shared, "holding space without needing to understand" and this sense of trust between parents and children goes a long, long way.

Dooley Noted's avatar

Well said 🥹👍

Suki Kaur's avatar

Just gave this a read - what a beautiful instalment of this story Ann and Sheeba. I loved how Shreya noticed the beauty in the glass she picked up, and how she transformed it into something beautiful towards the end, even though she didn’t know that’s what she’d use it for (she just appreciated the beauty of it in the moment and held onto it).

I equally loved the fact that her parents encouraged this side of her creativity and didn’t dismiss it.

This was such an incredible read. It reminded me about the importance of staying curious and took me back to the infinite possibilities we conjure up as children, and how we, as adults, can also hold onto that same curiosity 💗

Dooley Noted's avatar

Hi Suki, I appreciate you taking the time to read and leave such a thoughtful comment. You are right on all accounts. So often parents get so frustrated with clutter and random things that kids bring home that they just want to throw it all away. Being thoughtful to sort, store, and give purpose to things that have meaning to our children, each step of the way provides an opportunity to connect with the child and their inner thoughts. It also helps them recognize that not all things they find are equally special and deciding which ones to let go would become an important skill that will continue to serve them in all aspects of life.

Dark Horse Insights by Adneen's avatar

Children's confidence begins at home. Ofcourse parents should course correct but also should be their biggest cheerleaders

Dooley Noted's avatar

Definitely! The home and family set the foundation.

Steena Hernandez's avatar

I love this story. ❤️ I especially love how her parents just trusted her creativity and let her figure it out. sweet reminder to let our kids see the world in their own way. ✨

Dooley Noted's avatar

So glad you enjoyed this story. Yes, that trust is so essential for the child to reach their own potential through curiosity. That is how human innovations came about!

Destin B. Tran's avatar

I struggle with this a lot. My sons play and make messes most days. Most days, it’s great. But on some special days, it can get tough. 😂

I really liked how her dad just gave her a tin box so the small things wouldn’t get lost, without needing to know what she was going to make.

As a father of three really creative and messy sons. I need to remember that sometimes the mess might make sense to them even when it doesn’t make sense to me.

Thank you both for this. ❤️

Dooley Noted's avatar

Thank you Destin for sharing this, and I'm glad you had a positive takeaway. It is a balance between supporting children's creativity and keeping the mess from getting out of control.