The Dooley Method is a connection-first approach to organizing with kids.
Home organizing guided by respectful parenting to reduce clutter while supporting trust, confidence, and connection.
Many families come to me feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and disconnected. They’ve been pushing for change, but the pressure and urgency only seem to make things harder.
Does this sound familiar?
You’ve tried to organize with your family, with little success
Clutter leaves you feeling stressed, angry, or resentful
You take on the work yourself because it feels easier
You feel exhausted and unsure how to move forward
You find yourself yelling, bribing, or negotiating just to get cooperation
If so, you’re not alone.
This is exactly where many families begin.
How the Dooley Method came to be
I didn’t come to this work with a method in mind. I came to it looking for relief.
I grew up in a cluttered home where “tough love” and earning approval were the norm. Organizing offered me a sense of calm and control in the chaos. It worked—until I had kids. I found myself yelling, bribing, and threatening punishment just to get cooperation, and feeling guilty as I moved further from the kind of relationship I wanted with my children.
I began noticing the same pattern with the families I worked with. Parents, overwhelmed by clutter, invested in organizing hoping for change—only to feel frustrated when their kids couldn’t maintain the systems. Children were expected to follow decisions they hadn’t been part of, and when things fell apart, organizing became another source of tension. That disconnect stayed with me.
The Dooley Method was created to place connection first. It’s a way of organizing that brings the whole family into the process—so responsibility grows without blame or shame, and every family member feels seen and valued along the way.
A family shares their story
MORE ENERGY
Homes feel easier to maintain, leaving more time for what matters.
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MORE CLARITY
Less visual noise leads to more peace of mind.
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MORE SPACE
Rooms that support play, rest, and connection— not just storage.
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What’s possible for your family
MORE CONNECTION
Emotional space opens up when clutter no longer dominates daily life.
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MORE FOCUS
Families surround themselves with what truly supports their well-being.
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MORE LIKE YOURSELF AGAIN
Parents feel grounded, confident, and less reactive.
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Families who have experienced the shift
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“It was incredible working with Ann. My family has put what she has taught us into practice. My kids have been helping to pick up items and putting them where they belong. I can’t thank her enough!”
R, parent of 4
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"Ann has inspired me to restart my parenting journey. I saw myself turning into a raging mom, angry that I spend so much time cleaning up. After learning from Ann, I finally connected with myself and my kids authentically."
D, parent of 2
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"We really can’t thank Ann enough! This has been a life-changing improvement and such valuable lessons on how to set up our home for success, and to think twice about what we bring in and how to let go."
M, parent of 3
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“Thank you so much! You are a gift to my familiy. You’ve helped me turn over a new leaf! Thank you! We are so grateful for our new life! You’ve blessed our family with a priceless gift of a lifetime!"
J, parent of 1
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“Thank you so much, Ann! This was such an incredible experience and we are forever grateful. My kids are happier, our home is calmer, and my marriage has improved too! I can’t believe how much changed”
A, parent of 2
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"I always negotiated with my kids to get stuff done. Ann helped me realize that I was not teaching them to take personal responsibility. It's been life changing. Thank you!"
R, parent of 2
Ready for your family to feel relief?
If you’re looking for support teaching organizing skills in ways that build cooperation, confidence, and lasting habits, I’d love to help.